Happiness and social Relations
Every face dull and anxious; where is the peace of our society lost?
A satisfied heart is a great blessing of Allah. When you feel a lack of peace, repent before your Lord. Happiness has been included in the
curriculum in government or non-government schools of many countries.
A person in any part of the world will have to hear from the
lips of lust that peace and contentment are disappearing. The first reason and
the main reason that is currently causing dissatisfaction and unrest in the
world is the distance from religion. Man, no matter what religion he belongs
to, is drifting away from his religious teachings and is running blindly in
pursuit of the world. When he achieves one thing, he clings to another. In this
race, he does not live in peace.
There is a well-known saying that the one who disturbs others
can never find peace and it is clear guidance that when you feel a lack of
peace, repent before your Lord. We have heard that a contented heart is a great
blessing of Allah, one is a satisfied heart and one is a restless heart, a
contented heart which is one of the blessings of Allah to which Allah bestows
this blessing is always calm. However, he lives with patience and gratitude, and
the part in which the heart becomes restless, he remains restless even after
taking care of everything in the world, and there is no peace anywhere.
The Corona epidemic has taken a dangerous toll on social
relations, and apart from that, everyone is complaining to each other these
days. Understand that the market for complaints is hot, be it personal life, social,
national, or national. Complaints and unrest are found in every matter be it
religious or political.
The wife complains to the husband and the husband complains
to the wife, Bob disagrees with the son, the children complain to the parents
and the neighbor complains to his neighbor, the friend complains, Writers and
poets complain to critics and critics complain to writers and poets and everyone
complains about time and era. And for this, everyone is complaining that time
is bad. The question is whether any era or era is really worthy of complaint.
The fact is that the role of our deeds is key in making the
covenant or time good or bad or making it good or bad. On the contrary, the
covenant is infallible and we fill it with colors and oils on our own. The
shape or distort it, plays a role in making it favorable or unfavorable.
The positive side is hidden even in our difficult times,
there are rays of hope even in unfavorable circumstances. It is necessary to
identify it and put it into practice. Positive thinking keeps man fresh in
every age.
It is the perfection of our performance and our understanding
and insight to turn the tide, to bring it into its creative form, to connect it
with life and society. Use as a defeating weapon. Knowledge and poetry can play
an important role in protecting life from disappointments and disappointments
as long as they are constructive and representative of the values of life.
All our actions seem to be personal but their effects on our collective life
there are.
Most people are moving away from social life by worrying
all the time, living in the past all the time, or worrying about the future does
not allow a person to rest. Living in the present and feeling the present to
the fullest can save us from drowning in the thoughts of the past. Who saw
yesterday so why not learn to live in the present? Thinking about the future is
a negative process but making a goal in life is a positive thing.
Who doesn't like to get something but says that the pleasure
in giving a gift is not in taking. Sometimes helping a needy friend or
relative, feeding a homeless person or any other kind of charity, or even giving
a smile to someone will make your mood better. How to spread love to go? This
question is not so difficult.
Giving presents to loved ones, being kind to other employees
in the office, giving ice cream to a child, many small habits can help us to
share love and find love. It is said that by making full use of one's
abilities, one can not only be more satisfied in one's life but also improve
the lives of others. If one succeeds in forgiving the mistakes of others, Life
can be relaxed. A psychologist who has counseled many married couples says that
most problems start with daily bitterness.
Paying attention to each other, caring for each other, and,
above all, forgiving mistakes can prevent many relationships from breaking
down. According to a University of Madrid study, writing down negative thoughts
and then throwing them in the trash. Throwing away is a good way to get rid of
these thoughts. According to psychologists, this should be done regularly.
Paying attention to your thoughts and taking care of when negative thoughts are
invading the mind and trying to think of something good immediately can also
drive negative thoughts out of our minds.
Happiness has dropped sharply around the world, according to a new
global survey. According to the report, this trend has increased rapidly in the
last decade. What are the reasons for this? According to the results of the
latest international survey conducted on the topic of Happiness in human
society, Happiness and Happiness all over the world. The
decline in the situation is the lowest level in the last ten years.
The survey also said that the people of the United Nations
are currently facing the worries and extraordinary pressures of daily life.
According to the survey, the number of people suffering from stress has also
increased compared to the last decade. The well-being of ordinary people is
disappearing and anxiety is on the rise. The final conclusion is that the rate
of anxiety faced by human beings around the world is much higher than in the
past. To complete the survey, 1.5 million citizens from 146 countries were
interviewed.
Another survey found that social media was losing
its peace of mind. The study found that people who stayed away from social
media for a week were happier than others. The study, conducted by the Happiness
Research Institute (HRI), took samples from 1,095 people in Denmark.
They were divided into two different groups. One group
continued to use Facebook, while the other group stopped using the social
networking site. HRI chief executive Mike Viking told AFP in Copenhagen, the
capital of Denmark. "We turned our attention to Facebook because it's a social
media platform used by most people in the group and people of all ages. After a
week, people who don't use Facebook," he said. He said that he is more
satisfied with his life. 88% of them declared themselves happy.
On the other hand, 81% of the people in the group who used
Facebook considered itself happy. 84% of the members of the group who did
not use Facebook said that they appreciate their life while only 12% said that
that they are not satisfied with their lives. About 75% of the Facebook users
were satisfied with their lives and 20% of the same group said they were dissatisfied
with their lives.
Facebook users are 39% more likely to be unhappy than
non-Facebook users. At the end of this experience, people who stay away from
Facebook is more likely to have a better social life and focus on things.
Reported shortfall. The other group of people did not report any such change in
their lives. The authors of this study wrote that instead of focusing on what
we need, we, unfortunately, have a tendency to look at others. Focus on life.
There is also a report that the subject of Happiness
has become a part of the curriculum in government or non-government schools in
many countries. The teaching of this subject introduced in schools will
certainly have an effect on psychology. These include ethics education and
mindfulness exercises that will teach students to be good people. The
curriculum will strengthen the role of students, improve their mental health
and teach them tolerance. Students will also be taught to cope with stress,
depression, and anxiety.
According to the World Happiness Index, Norwegians are the happiest. A year ago, Denmark was the happiest country on the index. The compilers of the Global Happiness Index believe that if Happiness could be bought with wealth, the United States would be the happiest country, but this is not the case because government policies are important in determining human Happiness. The United States ranks 14th. The main reason why Norway is considered a landlocked country is its economic system and health standards. In addition to being confident, the people of this country have more options to choose from in their daily lives.
The country, which has been ranked number one on the Global Happiness
Index for many years is now ranked second. Iceland is ranked third and
Switzerland is ranked fourth. Seven of the top ten countries in the new report
are from continental Europe. Germany is ranked 16th among the most populous
countries. People's Happiness is linked to governments' pro-people policies.
There are three non-European countries in the top ten, with
North American Canada ranked seventh. Australia is ranked eighth, while New
Zealand is ranked ninth. The report is issued by the United Nations and is
compiled by an organization that monitors global sustainable development. India
ranks third in the SAARC region and is ranked 118th in the world. Pakistan's
neighbor Afghanistan ranks 154th, while Sri Lanka (117th in the global index)
ranks second. Iraq ranks second among the unhappy countries. Afghanistan and
Yemen is at the bottom of the list.
On the other hand, even among ordinary citizens of rich
countries, unnecessary pressure and hegemony are increasing. Citizens of many
rich countries have expressed some satisfaction with their lifestyles.
According to a survey conducted by the International Gallup Organization, it
can be said that the world is currently experiencing excessive stress, anxiety.
And the gloom has taken hold. Finally, we will end this conversation with a
beautiful saying. A man said to an old man, "I want peace." The old
man said, "Take out 'I' from this sentence. It is a sign of arrogance.
Then take out the phrase "I want" from this sentence. This desire is
a sign of the self, after that, you will have only "peace".
